Why Don't You Write Me

Connecting us during COVID-19.

Why Don't You Write Me Logo. White Background with a black rectangle in the middle with the text "Why Don't You Write Me"
Why Don't You Write Me is a rolling six-month writing project which launched in December 2020, fostering connection and community for students, staff, and our own families and communities, during this time.
When you sign up, you receive a monthly bundle of beautiful postcards and notecards to send, a monthly online gathering hosted by Dr Kitty Wheater and Rev’d Geoffrey Baines, and 'Write Back' from the WDYWM team.
The project highlights Scottish artists like Angie Lewin and Catherine Forshall, including artwork reproduced especially for this project. WDYWM cards are being sent all over the world, and you can read stories from members in this feature in the Staff Bulletin.
WDYWM is a rolling project, and you can join at any time. It is free for students, with a suggested donation for staff.
Visit our website or scroll down to find out more, find us on social media @writemeuoe, and join the project as a student or member of staff.


We gather online on Tuesdays once a month, 4-5pm on Zoom.
Next dates: December 14th, 25th January, 15th February, 22nd March, 26th April, 24th May and 21st June. (Break for July and August)


Notes on Connection During A Pandemic

During COVID-19, with its lockdowns, restrictions, physical distancing, and self-isolation, connecting to each other and the people we care about is more important than ever. Yet our forms of connection and community have turned upside down. We experience skin hunger – the deprivation of touch – alongside Zoom fatigue, from over-connection online. The Office of National Statistics report that 8% of us are always or often lonely – yet we have full inboxes. Young people aged 16-29 are twice as likely to feel lonely as the over-70s – but we spend hours every day on our phones. Meanwhile, those who care for others may feel touched-out, yet without closeness.

How do we reach each other, in times like these?


When We Put Pen to Paper

Photograph of a pen writing on a piece of white paper.

Here’s one idea. Amidst daily lives caught between mundanity and overwhelm, many of you tell us that the thump of the post through the letterbox has become a daily highlight. With so much of our study and work taking place online, to send and receive something through the mail grounds us back in the physical world. When we select a card, and feel it tangible in our hands, we picture it in the hands of the receiver. When we hold someone in mind, we remember that we too are held by others.

To put pen to paper is also to ask ourselves what we want to say. Amidst a perfect storm of isolation, boredom, and busyness, we may not know; we may have even forgotten how to ask. But when we hold paper and pen in hand, and the curls, squiggles, and spikes of ink emerge from beneath our fingers, we remember that we are more than pixels on a screen. And when we place ourselves on the page, we see ourselves and others more clearly.


Why Don’t You Write Me

Why don't you write me,

I'm out in the jungle,

I'm hungry to hear you.

Send me a card,

I am waiting so hard

To be near you.


Simon and Garfunkel, 1970

Why Don’t You Write Me is a rolling six-month project from the UoE Chaplaincy. It’s for the UoE community, and for your own communities and families, to help connect us to ourselves and each other during this time. Here’s what it looks like.


1. A monthly parcel in the post, containing five beautiful postcards and notecards. From botanical prints, to William Morris, to doodles from our own ThinSilence (Geoffrey Baines), the project also highlights Scottish artists like Angie Lewin, Jennifer Thomson, and Catherine Forshall, including artwork reproduced especially for this project.


Then it’s simple – write to someone, and put it in the post. There’s only one rule: send one of your postcards, each month, to someone who’s a UoE member or lives in Edinburgh. That could be your friend in another accommodation block, a member of staff in your department, or a colleague to say thank you for a job well done. Keep track of where you send your cards, whether in the UK or internationally, and let us know, for the map on our webpage.


2. Each month, we hold a Why Don’t You Write Me workshop online. We share stories of connection, community, and their challenges at this time, and explore practices of embodied writing, compassion, and mindful doodling.


3. Finally, there are some things that are better written than typed, better posted than emailed. If you feel like you have something to say, and no-one obvious to say it to, you can write to us, using your cards, and we will write back.


As Simon and Garfunkel sang, ‘a letter would brighten my loneliest evening’.


The Why Don’t You Write Me Team

Why Don’t You Write Me is led by Dr Kitty Wheater, Mindfulness Chaplain, and Associate of the Global Compassion Initiative. She writes the weekly MindLetter, which has over 500 subscribers across the University and has been viewed thousands of times during COVID. Alongside running the UoE’s mindfulness programme for students and staff, Kitty is an anthropologist and writer.


The Rev’d Geoffrey Baines is an Associate Chaplain for part of the week, providing dreamwhispering – a talents-led journey exploring the questions Who is my True Self? and What is my Contribution? – and Mindful Doodling to all students and staff. He is also a freelance dreamwhisperer and illustrator. Since 2014, Geoffrey has written and doodled every day at, and has published the colouring book Slow Journeys in the Same Direction, bringing his love of doodling and dreamwhispering together.


Why Don’t You Write Me is a rolling project, and you can sign up at any time.





I like the sound of this. How do I book?

Click here to register if you’re a student, and book here for staff.


Do you post to students and staff currently living abroad?



How much does it cost?

The scheme is free to students; for staff, there’s a suggested donation of £30 for six months of the scheme.


I'm a member of staff, and I’d love to join, but the suggested donation is too much for me at the moment. Can I make an alternative donation amount?

Please do. Email, and she will book you in manually and give you transfer details to make an alternative donation.


I can't make all the monthly gatherings. Can I still sign up?

Yes! The gatherings are not mandatory - just here to inspire and support you when you can make them.


Will you really write back if I write to you?

Yes! We, like you, love post.


I’d like to send a WDYWM card to Friendly Classmate or Brilliant Colleague, but I don’t have their postal address. How do I get it to them?

Photograph of a red postbox beside a path and a park.

Address your card to:


Friendly Colleague/Brilliant Classmate

c/o Why Don't You Write Me

The Chaplaincy Centre

1 Bristo Square

Edinburgh EH8 9AL


…and we will forward it to them.